Download Kino Escalation Ladder 2nd Edition – Vin DiCarlo. DiCarlo puts a lot of focus on getting physical as quickly as possible by using what he calls the ‘sexual kino escalation ladder’. The DiCarlo Escalation Ladder is. DiCarlo’s (Kino) Escalation Ladder – Deluge – AM Just thought I’d share this with you all. I’ve used the Escalation Ramp at the end of the.
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I am planning to do this with a girl Editoin have been on a few dates with and I’m hoping this will do the trick. Please give me any suggestions or opinions. Legs touching while standing and sitting, brushing abdomen while talking, touching back with palm while pulling in.
Hugging, escorting with hand on back, putting her legs over yours while sitting, holding her tummy on the side while sitting and talking, placing her hand on your thigh.
Higher rungs unlock lower rungs of classes. Do not start ramp with intention to finish later. I love the DiCarlo and use it regularly, I summarize the ladder this way for easiest remembering:. Editiom anyone have a video of this or can someone describe it in thorough detail? I don’t get this one. You are moving from pt A to pt B.
You were sitting or standing somewhat close. Make to depart, and almost as an afterthought run your hand closest to her along her abdomen as part of a gesture to follow you. Its like an incedental version of leading her aroung with your hand on her back.
When you make incedental contact with the abdomen correctly, you can often immediately feel a girl become more comfortable with you. It doesn’t help that the abdomen is a huge part of the human body. Also, I’ve dated a few girls that hate having their tummy touched because it makes them self conscious about their weight.
Also, I can’t think of any way to touch someone’s abdomen in a way to gesture, “follow me”. It makes a lot of sense to touch someone’s lower back and do that, though. Lower back is part of the abdomen. Remember it’s “abdomen”, not “abdominals”. In the action described above I usually make contact with the side of her tummy and lower back. Upon thinking more about it, whenever I am standing near someone male or female and don’t hear what they’re saying, I will often lean in while asking them to repeat themselves, usually when I do this I put my hand on the side of their stomach.
It may sound like an invasion of personal space, but remember good kino is all about being comfortable physically interacting with people. What kind of excuses do you use to move her legs over yours? Unless you’ve already K-closed her, I see it as creating a very awkward situation. Putting sunblock on a girl I was gaming. She leaned and laid on my lap as I applied the sunblock. If in a bar or club, telling a funny joke or teasingly poking her in the stomach as a rapport break, then hugging so you get contact as a form of rebuilding comfort and sexually escalating at the same time, which of course is a rapport break in its own right, which is resolved by building more comfort by separating and taking a step back.
Holding hands while you walk down the street just seems more romantic and personal than leg rubbing. Also, I don’t really give a shit but what has everyone found to be on average the farthest a woman will go in a social setting like a bar or club?
Your thoughts are good, but you’re misunderstanding the concept.
The stages are not built around what is considered to be ‘most romantic’. They are barriers of comfort so to speak. Basically people touch and get touched by random things and persons all the time on their hands and arms, so they are used to that.
It’s the ‘easy’ and first stage, because you can’t really gauge it editlon. It will pretty much always be acceptable. Abdomen and legs aren’t as common places to be touched. They require a person to wscalation much more within your personal space, and they are much closer to some of the erogenous zones – compared to hands and arms. Face and neck requires someone to be really close, and it’s very uncommon for people to be touched here by strangers, or even people they know.
We are the most protective ladded our face, and there are several erogenous zones on and around it, dicsrlo a person has to feel very very close to you from an emotional standpoint to be comfortable with you getting that intimate. Walk up to a stranger and try to touch their face – they will flinch; this is why.
While to an outsider it might seem more intimate, to the chick’s subconsciousness those leg areas are much more intimate places to be touched than her hands.
Everyone touches hands with handshakes, giving something to someone else, evition.
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Touching someone’s legs is usually something reserved for a more sexual encounter, and doing so will put them in that frame of mind. I don’t think “holding hands” means what you think. It isn’t like a parent walking with a child or two teenagers walking the halls. It is more like the “palm reading” ecition “let’s see who has longer fingers”. There are literally a hundred platonic reasons to touch and hold someones hand.
You can invite her to have a game of thumb-wars.
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You can ask to look at her painted nails. Not long ago I helped a girl stand up from a deep chair by taking her hand. Yesterday I grabbed a girls hand so that I could look at her watch.
I went to light a girls cigarette and she cupped her hands around mine to shield from the wind. Your kind of “allowed” to just grab someones hand for dozens of appropriate reasons. Pressing your legs against her legs definitely has a more intimate feeling since it requires your bodies to be closer together. To the untrained eye they can seem that way, but in the moment, no.
Legs touching is sexy and creates that electricity, that indescribable vibe that holding hands or walking arm in arm just doesn’t come close to.
When you are moving up teh ladder and get to a higher level of comfort and intimacy, pausing and going back to a lower level to get in the lower steps just means you’re cooling things down. If you skip a step, on well, it just means you’re getting laid that much sooner: I’m guessing once they reached the point where clothes should come off, it wasn’t an option. Anti-climax and girl lost interest.
The “brush abdomen while talking” point is one I’ve had trouble with – could you give an example of how to do this? I’ve noticed women sometimes do this when they’re being playful an “oh stop it” kind of touchbut I can’t imagine how I would use it. Hey I just posted a field report where I followed the ladder to a “t” but I just got stuck and didn’t go for the kiss, and uncontrollable things didn’t allow me to isolate her.
Here is my sticking point: Her editjon of friends were in a circle talking right in front of us a meter or so awaywe were out of the circle. Now should I have isolated further before going for the kiss? Or should I have just kissed her? Pull her lader so you’re cheek to cheek talking in each others ear.
At some point kiss her neck when you feel the energy is right. After a few times of missing your opportunity you’ll know what it feels like when it’s “on”. Next time you do get it right and kiss her neck, pull back slightly and kiss her properly.
Haha, sounds good, another one I heard was good is to brush her face from the top corner of her face to behind her ear, then while still touching, fingers slide to dscalation chin then kiss. I got this pdf on my desktop for those time when I need to brush up on escalation. Great information presented in this! If only I would have known this stuff a month ago.
Kino Escalation Ladder 2nd Edition – Vin DiCarlo
I would have at least K-closed if not f-closed. And as a sketchy little introvert that would have been a big deal lol.
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Original DiCarlo Ladder Concise and Emphasized -Eye contact is key at outset -Under each class first points are incidental, second are overt Class 1 Shaking hands, tapping on shoulder, touching to emphasize points, high five Holding hands, arm in arm escorting Class 2 Legs touching while standing and sitting, brushing abdomen while talking, touching back with palm while pulling in Hugging, escorting with hand on back, putting her legs over yours while sitting, holding her tummy on the side while sitting and talking, placing her hand on your thigh Class 3 Brushing something off her face, talking while touching her face to yours because loud etc, touching necklace, pinching cheeks Placing head on your shoulder, smelling her neck, stroking face with finger looking in her eyes, running fingers through hair looking in eyes, holding side of her neck looking in eyes Brief points to remember: Touch to emphasize points, brush abdomen while talking, touch back while walking, brush something off face, pinch cheeks.
Place head on shoulder, smell neck, stroke face, run fingers through hair, hold side of neck. Ramp, to be done in an isolated location: Kissing from close, move in as to kiss then pull away to say something else, builds tension. Place finger under her chin and pull mouth towards.